How to give a head job

Author : Suzie Harris

There are many positions for giving blow jobs. The best way to find out is to experiment - great for him.*He can stand, kneel, lie on the bed, or perhaps he prefers when you are lying down and he pushes his penis into your mouth.*The most important thing is making sure the both of you are comfortable...there is nothing worse than when half way through a blow job your neck is too sore you can't keep going. So, get comfy is the first thing. Experiment and find out what works for you both.*Decide if you are going to use a condom, if you are, put it on right at the start. It is more erotic if you put it on him. Use it as a tease and caress him at the same time when you are putting the condom on.*After you have chosen your position, gently start caressing his penis with your hand. This is more of a tease as he knows the best is yet to come. *Keep teasing with your hands, caressing lightly and then with more pressure all over his balls and his penis. Gently rub your fingers starting from his butt hole all the way to the top of the penis.*Now start using your mouth. Vary the way you touch and lick him. Lick his balls all over, then lick up and down his penis. Remember that some guys just don't only like it just on top of the penis, they like it everywhere!*Find the spots that he seems to like the most, and vary the way you lick it. Put the penis in your mouth and lick it all over with your tongue. Keep caressing his balls with your hands - he will tell you if he doesn't like it. *While his penis is in his mouth gently use your teeth to touch his penis. He might like this different sensation.*Remember, keep an eye out for his body language. From the noises he makes you will be able to tell if he is liking it or not. If he moves away from you then perhaps you have touched him too hard, or you have hit a spot that he doesn't like. All guys are different. Some love having their balls touched and grabbed, others don't. The only way to find out is to do it, and see his reaction.*Take a break from sucking on the penis and lick him, starting from right under the balls to right to the top of the penis. Keep using your hands to play with him. The trick is to experiment; you aren't going to know what he likes until you give it a go.*While licking his balls and penis, give him a hand job. Keep varying what you do. Touch lightly and then with more pressure, lick lightly and then with more pressure. Don't just keep your mouth sucking on his penis. If you keep your mouth on his penis the entire time, you are bound to get a sore mouth. Even if that is his favourite position, it is good to change your position so he has something to look forward to when you return you mouth to his penis.Play around... *You might like to add some massage oil to the blow job. He might like the feel of something oily on his penis, try it and see what his reaction is.*Lots of guys like their arses played with as well during the blow job. Try with your hands and your tongue. If you like it, and he likes it, keep going again varying the pressure you put on him. *If you uncomfortable using your hands or tongue, try experimenting with sex toys like Butt Plugs. He might get off with you using a butt plug on him while you are giving him a blow job. Anal Beads are also great. *When giving the blow job, also grab his thighs, his arms, look at him in the eye, let him know that you are as into him as he is to you. He wants to know that you are enjoying it as well. Moan as well, really get into the act as it will be better for the both of you, and make you more turned on.When he is close to finishing....When he is close to finishing, you will know from his body language, and if you are not sure he will tell you. There are different ways to finish off.*Some guys love it when the partner swallows the cum, however for some people, they don't like it. There are options.*If he is not wearing a condom, he can cum on your body, you can swallow it and spit it out or you can finish him off with your hand. Everyone is different, find out what works for the both of you. This experience is going to be the best when you are both into it. Experiment with your hands and mouth, try sex toys and massage oil. Most importantly, enjoy what you are doing and let him know that you love doing it as well, it will be a much more erotic experience if you are both moaning and groaning! Written by Suzie Harris, an expert on all things that happen in the bedroom, particularly love, sex toys and romance. She is the chief contributor to The Lazy Stud http://www.thelazystud.com.au

Category : General Sexuality

How To Hire A Good SEO Consultant

Author : article@hit4biz.com

The importance of choosing the right SEO is greater than many of us can imagine. Search engine optimizing is what keeps your site indexed and ranked by search engines and ensures you a good amount of traffic. Without it, your website is either dead, or struggling for survival, hoping to be noticed. The area of SEO is very complex and it's permanently extending. New companies and consultants seem to appear out of the blue. SEOs use a wide variety of search engine optimizing tactics, with different efficiency levels. Consequently, before hiring an SEO consultant, it is very important to make sure you'll be getting what you need. Apart from what you'll be able to find out from the SEO itself, you can also perform a previous research on your own.Things to find out on your own Find out for how long has the company been in business. This should be listed on their website. Search their website for previous projects to find out whether they have a marketing related experience. A reliable company also has client testimonials and case studies to prove they are able to keep their customers satisfied. Be skeptical with companies that email you out of the blue to advertise their SEO services. Beware of SEO companies that claim they can provide a #1 ranking guarantee. Ranking is determined by many factors that are beyond the SEO's control. Beware of SEOs that claim they have a priority submit or special relationships with Google or other search engines. There's no such thing.Things to ask the SEO consultantDo they include link building in their SEO services?A professional SEO consultant doesn't limit to building keyword rich content, but also incoming links from relevant website to increase your PageRank.What are they doing for website conversion enhancement?A high traffic is meaningless unless your website provides what the users are looking for. A good SEO consultant uses several conversion enhancement techniques, such as copywriting strategies, site usability, call to action tactics and advanced conversion reporting.Do they help you with calculating your ROI (Return of Investment)?SEO services can be quite expensive and you need to calculate your potential returns. ROI depends on various factors, such as target population, size of your market place, the sales value of your services and the number of people searching for them on the Internet etc. An experienced SEO should be able to help you predict your ROI.Do they use SEO best practice and anti-spam methods?There are many SEOs that use various strategies to trick search engines in thinking your page is more relevant than it actually is. No SEO consultant will admit to using spamming and other unethical strategies, so you can't ask him the question directly. However, ask as many questions as possible about the methods they will be using and make sure you receive straight answers.Do they put a limit on the number of search phrases? Many SEOs have a limited number of phrases they will optimize for. However, if you're paying a monthly retainer to the SEO Company, they shouldn't do this. Even though there are a few phrases more important than others, the rest shouldn't be neglected either.The first thing a good SEO consultant will do is perform an analysis on the current state of your website and provide a Website Analyzing report. Further analysis should be performed on a regular basis and your website traffic should be permanently monitored. A professional consultant understands the difference between bulk traffic, getting to your website for irrelevant keywords, and qualified traffic. Making the right choice will provide you with qualified traffic, as well as well-structured pages and a high usability level.Copyright 2006 Andreas Obermueller About the Author:Andreas Obermueller is webmaster of Hit4Biz.com - Marketing Related Informationand recommends Marble Host as reliable Web Host

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The Ballad of: Brawling Mad-dog Sergeant Rook [Now in: SPANISH and English]

Author : Dennis Siluk
English VersionA bunch of us guys in the hutIn …Nam
Were playing cards, singing songs;
In a solo-room, back of the hut
Lay mad-dog, Sergeant Rook;And watching from a distance
Was his sidekick, Corporal Cook.When out of the night, he wantedTo fight
This bully of six-foot-two
Dog-drunk, smelling like a skunkI wanted to fight him too.He wobbled like a duck as IBlocked his punchâ€"(for I was drunk too),
And I kicked him several timesI guessâ€"
Yet he didn’t fall, as expected
This Sergeant I barely knew…There was no man, could beatThis bear of a brut,
In our company, or there about
So I kicked him in the groinAgainâ€"
And still he didn’t shout!And such was I, as he lookedAt me
Puzzled from brow to foot
He was a demon from hell IThought
This mad-dog Sergeant Rook.With the face of bulldogAnd a deadly stare
I swear he was three hundredPounds;
I twisted my body like a cobra
Jumped in the air like a birdAnd when I came down
The blaze in his eyes were goneThis mad-dog Sergeant Rook!I pierced my fingers into his flesh
Like nails and thornsâ€"withFerociousness…
Then I moved from side to sideA bit
As he swayed like a tree in a storm
Clutching the side of the hutI guess;
We both knew, we wanted no more.In echoes he cursed insanitiesâ€"As his sidekick cheered him on
But for he and I, the game wasOver
It was back to war, in Vietnam!...Note: 699 5/31/05Spanish VersionLa Balada de :
la Pelea del perro rabioso Sargento Rook.Un grupo de nosotros los muchachos en la chozaEn …Nam
Jugábamos a las cartas, cantando canciones;
En un cuarto solo, atrás de la choza
Sargento Rook, Puso al perro rabioso,Y mirando desde una distancia
Estaba su compañero, el cabo Cocinero.Cuando hacia fuera de la noche, él quisoLuchar
Este matón " de seis pie dos "
perro borracho, oliendo como un zorrillodesee lucharlo también también.Él se bamboleó como un pato asì, yo
bloquee su puñete-(por que yo también estaba borracho),
Y le di de patadas varias vecesPrienso-
Màs el no se cayò como esperaba.
Este Sargento yo, apenas lo conocía …No había ningún hombre, que podría golpearEste oso de un brut,
En nuestra compañía, o por allí
Entonces le di patadas en la ingleOtra vez-
¡Y de todos modos él no gritó!Y tal era yo, como él miróEn mí
Dejado perplejo de frente a pie
Él era un demonio del infiernoyo Pienso
Este sargento Rook perro rabioso.Con la cara de bulldogY un mirada fija mortal
Juro que él tenía trescientasLibras;
Torcí mi cuerpo como una cobra
saltè en el aire como un pajaroY cuando bajé
El resplandor en sus ojos se habian ido.¡Este Sargento Rook perro rabioso!Perforé mis dedos en su carne
Como uñas y espinas- conFerocidad …
Entonces me moví un poco
de un lado al otro
Como él se balanceó como un árbol en una tormenta
Agarrando el lado de la chozaAdivino;
Ambos sabíamos, no quisimos más.En ecos él maldijo locuras-Como su compañero lo alentó
Pero para él y para mi el juego había acabado¡Esto fuè tras de La guerra, en Vietnam!...Note: 699 5/31/05Poet/Author Dennis Siluk, produces a ballad of Vietnam, an occurance, where more truth resides than fiction. The Author lives in St. Paul, Minnesota and Lima, Peru; and was a soldier in the Vietnam war
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Divorce & Child Custody - What is a 730 Evaluation?

Author : Steven Carlson
In California, a 730 evaluation can be described as an in-depth study and analysis of a family, their children, and the relationships within the family in the context of a child custody and/or visitation dispute. A 730 evaluation is also known as a child custody evaluation or child custody investigation. 730 evaluations are specific to California in that the number "730" refers to the California Evidence Code Section 730 under which it is ordered.

In legal terms, California Evidence Code Section §730 states:

"When it appears to the court, at any time before or during the trial of an action, that expert evidence is or may be required by the court or by any party to the action, the court on its own motion or on motion of any party may appoint one or more experts to investigate, to render a report as may be ordered by the court, and to testify as an expert at the trial of the action relative to the fact or matter as to which the expert evidence is or may be required. The court may fix the compensation for these services, if any, rendered by any person appointed under this section, in addition to any service as a witness, at the amount as seems reasonable to the court. Nothing in this section shall be construed to permit a person to perform any act for which a license is required unless the person holds the appropriate license to lawfully perform that act."

A 730 evaluation is typically conducted by a "child custody evaluator," also known as a 730 evaluator or custody evaluator. The 730 evaluator will play the role of the investigator and look closely at the family dynamics so he/she can provide the court with a 730 evaluation report as evidence to help the court find the best possible arrangement that reflects the overall best interest of the child. The 730 evaluation report may be oral or written and the 730 evaluator may be called to testify or cross-examined at trial.

A 730 evaluation is generally ordered for a specific purpose and usually within high-conflict or complicated child custody cases where expert evidence is required. Before agreeing to a 730 evaluation you will want to discuss your particular case with a family law attorney in your area to help you learn whether or not a 730 evaluation is the right approach for you.Child Custody Coach supplies information, written materials, online materials, and coaching services to parents in the field of child custody, namely, divorce, child custody and visitation, divorce, child custody evaluations, parenting, and all child custody related issues. Custody Match is an online consumer and family law attorney matching service to help consumers find the right family law attorney, divorce lawyer, or child custody attorney in their area.
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